Toys 101 - The Guide, Part 3: Vibrators

Welcome to the third part of the Undressed Toys Guide, which is all about the type of toy that most people probably think about when someone says sex toys. You guessed correctly, it is time for the vibrator.

Did you miss the first two parts of the guide? You have them linked below:

Part 1: The Intro

Part 2: Sensitizers

History

It is said that the vibrator was created to help cure hysteria. Hysteria affected a lot of women and the cure was orgasm. In the beginning orgasm was created manually by the doctors but since that was fairly time consuming the vibrator was then invented to support the doctor's in treating the women. You can read more about the history, here.

While we can absolutely laugh at the fact that orgasm was actually considered a treatment and the vibrator was there to support the doctors and not at first to actually give pleasure to women, we, at Undressed, do believe there are (at least) two important take aways from this history: 1) pleasure and orgasm are crucial for women to be healthy and 2) the vibrator has been an important and still is an important part of women's sexual pleasure. Important note: orgasm is just one part of sexual pleasure and not even the most important part according to us, but more on that another time.

Our thought on vibrators and some ways to use

Very often when we think of vibrators we think of vibrators for clitoris and while vibrators on clitoris is amazing and for many a guaranteed way to orgasm it is far from the only pleasure you can receive with vibrators.

We highly recommend start using the vibrators on different parts of the body and notice what feels pleasurable, eg. try in on the inner thighs, the neck, the breasts or maybe on spots that we tend to consider less sexual such as the hands and the arms. Then when you feel ready let it move closer to the genitals and for the woman start from the inner thigh and move inward and ensure you give the lips

An amazing way to feel both connection to each other and a lot of pleasure is to use a vibrator on the pussy while the cock is inside because it lets the both if you experience the pleasure of the vibrations. Another great combination is the tongue and a vibrator, think of it as the vibrator assisting him when licking her.

For the one who wants to take the next exciting step with vibrators, a super sexy way to go is use a remote controlled vibrator when out for drinks or dinner. Have it fit perfectly into her pussy and let him control the vibrations, we kan almost guarantee that just setting it up will turn you on.

Here are some of our favorites and one that is on the wish list

The Rabbit - Personally (the woman of Undressed ) this was my first ever sex toy and I do believe that to be true for many other women too. The rabbit both vibrates inside the pussy as well as stimulates clitoris

Womanizer & Satisfyer - These are fully focused on the clitoris and is said by many to be the best toys for a guaranteed orgasm (reminder: there are so many more parts to sex than orgasm).

Massage Wand - Together with the rabbit this is probably the one most famous when it comes to the look. A highly versatile toy.

Remote controlled & Wearable vibrators - Toys like this is a lot of fun for couples. There are also other types that can be controlled through an app. A side note for the app controlled ones: From experience we have learned that they rarely connect perfectly, but that might just add the extra spice you are looking for. Another version of remote controlled / wearable is this one, that we have actually not tried yet ourselves.

Lioness Smart Vibrator - This one may look like any rabbit, it is not. It is a smart device, like your apple watch or oura ring, but it collects your orgasm data! This one is definitely on on the top wish list for 2024!

Tips & Tricks

• Speed is a fun way to play and create variety - also what you want will differ on different days

• Different vibrators will feel different on different body part, eg. you may love

• If it feels like too big of a step to try the remote control on a dinner out then try it on a dinner at home

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